When Beverley McFarland’s husband David’s health was declining due to multiple sclerosis, she became his full-time carer.
Following months of being at his side at Mercy Place Lynbrook, Bev promised him she would return to volunteer alongside the staff and resident, who became like family.
This National Volunteer Week, Mercy Health is celebrating volunteers like Bev, whose compassion and connection help brighten the lives of residents across its services.
“You never really get over losing someone, but volunteering has helped me a lot. It gives me purpose and peace,” Bev said.
“I wanted to stay close to him and where his last home was. By being here, I can still feel close to David while helping others. The residents feel like family to me, and volunteering has given me purpose again.”
Since beginning her volunteer role at Mercy Place Lynbrook last year, Beverley has spent every Thursday afternoon chatting with residents, playing games and keeping people company.
Originally from India, Beverley worked in aged care for more than 12 years in New Zealand before moving to Australia to be closer to her children and grandchildren.
She said compassion has always guided the way she cares for older people.
“With all the training and certifications, you still need compassion in your heart,” she said.
“I never looked at it as just a job. I cared for people like they were my own family.”
Bev said many residents now look forward to seeing her each week.
“They tell me they’re happy when I come in,” she said. “I feel like a daughter to many of them.”
For Beverley, volunteering has become much more than giving back.
“It gives me comfort and peace,” she said. “Helping other people has helped me too in my grief.”
This National Volunteer Week, Beverley’s story is a reminder of the powerful difference volunteers make, not only in the lives of others, but in their own lives too.
If you are interested in becoming a volunteer with Mercy Health, visit: Volunteering.
